About Me

Certified Love and Relationship Coach


I became a certified Calling in "The One" coach because I believe absolutely in this revolutionary process and wanted to share it, to help women in midlife like me, especially, to break out of old patterns and limiting beliefs to create new, happy, healthy, extravagant love and fulfillment in all areas of life I believe the more we can all let go of our past limitations, those old voices that say "shouldn't," "couldn't," or "don't deserve" and simply love and be loved (and create and nurture) without reserve, the better off the world will be. In the words of my mentor and Calling in "The One" author Katherine Woodward Thomas, each of our individual healing is "a drop in the collective bucket," and it makes a difference to the whole world. Now more than ever, the creation of more love -- of happy families, supportive communities, and purposeful projects and lives -- is vital to us all.

Why do I have such faith in Calling in "The One"? Because it worked for me! I ran across a copy of the book at a bookstore in Rockland, Maine, in 2017, when I was struggling to accept the end of the long relationship I'd created following my divorce. Working the process changed my life, causing me to see that not only was I creating unsuccessful patterns in my relationships -- but also that I had the power to change them, face my fears, and learn to love authentically. I have since come into union with the man of my dreams!

Being a coach evolved naturally for me from a lifelong study of romantic relationships and the history of ideas about gender. With a B.A. in psychology and M.A. in American Studies, I’ve also worked as a writer, editor, bookseller, and museum curator. More than anything, I love stories -- and I love that the Calling in "The One"  and True You Awakening processes give us all the power to rewrite ours.

With roots in Minnesota and Wisconsin, I’ve lived in New England since 2010. I work with people over Zoom, Skype, in person, or over the phone. Wherever in the world you are, I'd love to meet with you for a FREE 30-minute Discovery Session to see whether I'm the right coach for you.

Please contact me to learn more or book online now!

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“As an experienced therapist myself, I found Ellen to be extremely perceptive, intuitive and right on point with the manner in which she guided me through Calling in "The One.”  Based on my responses to questions or practices along with the themes identified in the book, she was able to guide me to places of understanding I was amazed by.” 

Kristin, 55, Maine


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